Hi friend,
I hope that spring is meeting you well.
Today, we'll talk about decluttering. Decluttering advice often sounds like this: "Get rid of everything that doesn't spark joy!" Great in theory. Exhausting in practice. Here's a better way — 5 small, doable steps that actually work.
1. The One-Minute Rule
What to do: If something takes less than one minute to put away, do it now. Shoes by the door. Mug in the sink. Clothes back in your wardrobe. Post in the bin.
Why it works: Small actions prevent big messes. One minute now saves 10 minutes later.
2. The One-Surface Method
What to do: Choose one surface — your nightstand, kitchen counter, coffee table. Clear it completely. Leave it empty.
Why it works: You'll see the difference immediately. And one clear surface makes you want another.
3. The Maybe Box
What to do: Can't decide if you need something? Put it in a box. Tape it shut. Write today's date on it. If you haven't opened it in 3 months, donate it.
Why it works: Removes decision paralysis. You're not throwing it away, you're just pausing.
4. The 12-12-12 Challenge
What to do: Find 12 things to throw away, 12 things to donate, and 12 things to put back where they belong.
Why it works: It's a game, not a chore. And 36 items gone makes a visible difference.
5. The Ritual Reset
What to do: End each day by resetting one room. Kitchen counters cleared. Living room pillows fluffed. Bedroom surfaces bare. Then light a candle — Nº11 Cedar & Pine if you want air; Nº20 Scandalwood if you want the room to settle.
Why it works: You wake up to order, not chaos. It's a gift to your future self.
The takeaway: Decluttering isn't about perfection. It's about progress.
Pick one method. Try it this week. Notice how it feels.
With care, Chiije